Where to Start With Your Spicy One®

"When my child screams or meltdown, I completely lose it..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• CALM Class ($49) - Master staying regulated when triggered by your child's words/actions

• Good Enough Class ($24) - Address the "I'm failing every day" spiral and self-criticism

• Repair Recipe PDF ($3.99) - Essential for cleaning up after you've lost it

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Learn co-regulation techniques that help you become the calmest one in the room.

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Deep healing of your own triggers and childhood wounds

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Crisis support when you're drowning in shame

Getting dressed, homework, bedtime - everything's a fight.

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• FIRM Class ($49) - Learn boundaries that work with defiant kids without force

• KIND Class ($49) - Language that invites cooperation instead of resistance

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Discover the “2×2×2 method” and other practical strategies for getting cooperation with less power struggles or over-negotiating.

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Transform into the parent who naturally gets cooperation

• How to Say No ($49) - Stop over-negotiating and pick battles wisely

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Live support for specific daily battle scenarios

"They say cruel things, hit, and seem to genuinely hate each other sometimes..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• Siblings School ($79) - Stop sibling violence and cruelty without becoming a 24/7 referee

• FIRM Class ($49) - Hold safety boundaries around violence and cruel words

• Repair Recipe PDF ($3.99) - Teach siblings how to repair after hurting each other

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Chapter 20 teaches you how to protect the mild child while validating everyone’s experience and creating family safety.

• Family Culture PDF ($7.99) - Create family values about how we treat each other

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Address the root family dynamics causing the hatred

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Crisis support for dangerous sibling situations

This kid is great for teachers and even dad, but defiant and disrespectful with mom.

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• KIND Class ($49) - Learn the "royal" approach that naturally commands respect

• FIRM Class ($49) - Develop consistent boundary-setting that rebuilds your authority

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - The Deep work to become the parent your child needs

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Chapter 8 helps you find your “Inner Royalty” and use your low, slow chest voice to project natural authority.

• How to Say No ($49) - Practice saying no (to ADULTS) without guilt to rebuild your confidence

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Live coaching for rebuilding your relationship

"This child goes from 0 to 100 in seconds... their big emotions take over our entire house."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• CALM Class ($49) - Learn to stay grounded when intensity hijacks your home

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Transform your relationship with your child

• KIND Class ($49) - Respond to explosiveness with connection rather than escalation

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Chapter 17 gives you “Meltdown Magic” - what to DO during tantrums when your child’s intensity feels unbearable.

• Family Culture PDF ($7.99) - Create family systems that can handle big emotions

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Live support for crisis moments and walking on eggshells

"I want to set boundaries but I'm terrified of dimming their sparkle with harsh discpline..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• KIND Class ($49) - Learn gentle effectiveness that preserves your child's spirit

• FIRM Class ($49) - Set loving limits that build up rather than break down

• Good Enough Class ($24) - Release the fear of "getting it wrong" and damaging them

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Learn to discipline without shame and help your strong-willed child channel their fire into something positive.

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Deep work on becoming the parent who honors their spirit

• Repair Recipe PDF ($3.99) - Make amends when you do cause harm

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Ongoing guidance for preserving their fire and yours!

"I get the looks from other parents... Other parents make it look so easy... I'm the mom with the screaming child in Target..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Deep work to become unshakeable in your parenting confidence

• How to Say No ($49) - Set boundaries with judgmental comments and unsolicited advice

• Holiday Boundaries PDF ($2.99) - Scripts for handling family/school criticism

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - The Bonus Chapter gives you language for handling judgment from teachers, family, and strangers who don’t understand.

• Good Enough Class ($24) - Release the need for others' approval and comparison trap

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Community of parents who truly "get it" plus Q&A’s with Mary

• KIND Class ($49) - Confident responses to judgment that maintain your dignity

"They’re pulling away and I'm panicking... I'm worried they won't want a relationship with me as an adult..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• Tweens & Teens Class ($99) - Navigate adolescent pulling away without damaging connection

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Live support from other parents in the teen trenches

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Chapter 4 helps you define your relationship vision so you parent with the long game in mind, not just surviving today.

• KIND Class ($49) - Rebuild connection when everything you say annoys them

• FIRM Class ($49) - Hold boundaries while preserving relationship

• Repair Recipe PDF ($3.99) - Make amends for past relationship damage

"He thinks I'm too soft, I think he's too harsh... Our marriage is suffering..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Get aligned on parenting approach and stop undermining each other

• Family Culture PDF ($7.99) - Create shared family values to guide decisions

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - Chapter 21 addresses co-parent conflicts and gives you strategies for getting on the same page when your partner is triggered.

• How to Say No ($49) - Set boundaries around parenting criticism from spouse

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Navigate co-parenting conflicts with live guidance

• FIRM Class ($49) - Present united front while honoring both perspectives

"Will they be able to keep friends? Am I raising a future CEO or future felon?..."

🎯 PRIMARY SOLUTIONS:

• Moms Of Spicy Ones Self Paced Course ($149) - Transform your relationship with your child's intensity as a gift

• Good Enough Class ($24) - Release catastrophic thinking and future fears

🎯 SUPPORTING SOLUTIONS:

• Parenting a Spicy One Book - See your child’s temperament as their superpower and learn how difficult children often become the most brilliant adults.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

• Spicy Ones Society Membership ($19/month) - Community of parents with successful spicy adult children

• KIND Class ($49) - Nurture their gifts while building character

• FIRM Class ($49) - Teach life skills they'll need as adults