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Which one sounds like you?

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“Your Spicy One is your invitation to grow your love for yourself and your child unconditionally.”

— Mary Van Geffen

  • Parenting a Spicy One book

    BOOK

    A compassionate guide for raising a deep-feeling and wonderfully strong-willed kid written just for you.

  • GROUP COACHING

    Don't parent your Spicy One alone — ask your questions and be with other parents who get it in Spicy Ones Society.

  • CLASSES

    Master the foundational skills of parenting strong-willed children with techniques that work without wilting your orchid.

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